Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Ending Relationship...

It is very difficult to determinate a relationship. It hurts not only the person you are ending the relationship with, but to you also. Ending a relationship can be one of the most dreadful tasks for many people. For this reason, it is important to end a relationship on a good note. When ending a relationship try to stay as calm and do it as nicely as possible to not hurt the other person even more with your harsh tone. It is important to remember that your soon to be ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend was once someone who meant very much to you and will leave you with some good memories. Nothing will take those memories away no matter what. Timing is also important when ending a relationship, for example do not break up with someone hours before a big final exam or on their big day. That will leave you with guilt. However, do not force yourself to be in a relationship for a long period of time just to keep that  significant other happy. It will lead you to hate your decision because you will only be making that person fall in love with you more.  You must be prepared to explain why you are ending the relationship to your significant other. You can not just say it is over and not explain why. Your significant other deserves to know why you have made the decision. End the relationship no matter what happens, such as begging and pleading. It will not be the smartest choice for your life.

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